It is simple.
if one element is missing it's abuse. Even in the fantasy of rape, all 3 elements are signed, sealed and delievered. My fetish BDSM clients trust me. I follow the rules 100%. If we get bored, we change the rules or fantasy game, both agree/consent and respect each others boundaries. As the top, mistress, dominatrix I have boundaries too. If I don't like it, we don't do it. Or, I do not see you anymore. Direct, simple and safe.
Fetish Diva Diamond