2017 and so much porn on the Net. Guys are jerking off to this and that, THINKING that porn movies are what women want for sex. WRONG! Overall, porn stimulates the mind and gets you off. It's not great sex with a live human being. Porn is a show. It's not real. When guys see male porn stars sledge hammering their dicks in a pussy and try to do this in real life sex, it's NOT going to work in their favor. You can't use your dick like a jack hammer in a open hole. Your dick is NOT a weapon. Your dick and you must understand when entering a pussy, that pussy needs to feel the pleasure too. It's not all about what you want. It's about what she wants. You need to get her fluffy like a marshmallow. You know, creamy, yummy and sweet. Get her juices flowing .....
Watching porn, let's escape to a massive world of fantasies. Your mind can do anything it wants without another person. You can even fantasy about things that turn you on and not be present with another person. My fantasy is this: I'm doing a gang bang with 25 men and the last guy is over 12 inches. Fucking 25 men hardcore and THEN a huge dick is not real. Get it?
Guys need to see the female like she's ROSE pedals, if pushed the wrong way they get crushed. You can't mow down the bush and both be satisfied. You gotta warm the bun and find out what makes her melt. Maybe what makes her melt is you picking your clothes off the floor OR ........feeding her chocolate ice cream. How about listening to what is important to her.
Try this: ask gentle questions, do you like how this feels? Make sure your hands are clean, smooth and nails filed smooth. If she likes it, you're moving in the right direction. Soft touch is the best approach and take her lead. If she pulls away from you, that's a NO! If she moves into you, that's a YES! Guys who want to satisfy the female first will be much more successful in sex. Guys who demand this and that will find themselves lost and frustrated. You can't kick a dog and expect the dog to be a happy camper. It runs away and hides. Mature Porn Star Zoe Zane